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Life is a series of choice, by what you choose, it brings you today.
And it also mean, you are not here by coincident, you’re here by choice, and I am glad that you made it!
When life is a series of choice, it also mean how your life right now reflects how did you made your decision when you’re in charge.
‘Whatever we focus on, expands
What do you choose to focus on, right now, in this life time? @iamriavananh
There are 2 approach:
What I want others do for me
What I can do to handle this situation and continue live my life
How I want me to show up in my life
Let me make it clearer for you by this example:
Imagine when an unexpected situation/ event happened, there are 2 types of thoughts pop up:
Stage 1: Whose false? What’s wrong with that person? They needed to fix this for me, they were wrong; What can I do to make them admit they were wrong, and apologize and fix this?.. I need this .. happen to really feel release..
And
Stage 2: What is this all about? If this is teaching me a lesson, what would it be? What’s the meaningful behind this connection and this incident? What is my lesson needed to learn? What I can do to handle this incident/ situation that I can move on? I want to move forward..
When you move from stage 1 to stage 2, it called shifting your focus, there are some people take a few minutes to shift their focus, there are some people needed to go haft of the way, waiting for someone handle the situation then realized, there are some people until the situation finished, still stuck in stage 1.
Stage 1 is the stage draining your energy the most, the more you stay in it, the more feeling of tiring, exhausted and stressful you will feel.
Stage 2 is the stage of owning your own path, persistence and freedom.
And of course, the quicker you can realize you in stage 1 and move to stage 2, the quicker you get close to your truly freedom.
You’re the author of your own life.
You’re the person define your own values.
Through every storm, anchor it in your core values compass, put in the effort, and let your energy speak itself. @iamriavananh
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Sending you a good vibe: Live more & Love More – Cat Burns
Since I’ve gotten older
i’ve realised
we all care about things that don’t really matter
we’re just told it does
and now we’re all tryna to keep our head above the water
but what if we don’t wanna?
if there’s something you wanna do
just do it
don’t let your head stop your heart from moving
if there’s someone you wanna talk to
talk to them
who knows who we’d be if we just
live more & love more
we all just need to
live more & love more
when we’re not here anymore
it all comes down to who we were and what we stood for
not what we had and not where we lived
so when we’re told it does
maybe then we’ll see
we don’t just have to keep our heads above the water
not if we don’t wanna
..